About
Grieving Back to Life
We create trauma-informed, judgment-free spaces where women can name grief beyond death and move forward without erasing their story.
Years of
Dedicated Service
Our work is grounded in decades of experience supporting grief, healing, and justice-impacted communities with care rooted in dignity and accountability.
18+
Experience in human services and justice-impacted systems
5+
250+
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Our mission
To create trauma-informed, judgment-free spaces where people can acknowledge, process, and integrate grief in all its forms, especially the grief that is often overlooked, minimized, or misunderstood, because no one should be forced to carry it alone or in silence.
Our vision
We envision a world where women, especially justice-impacted women, are supported in finding their way back to the strength that has always lived within them, without being rushed, erased, or reduced to productivity.
Founder & CEO
Ayana Thomas brings over 18 years of education and lived experience with the intersection of human services, grief support, and justice-impacted systems. Her work brings grief out of the shadows and into public health and justice conversations, addressing what she identifies as an unspoken epidemic of unresolved and compounded grief, particularly among justice-impacted women and disenfranchised communities.
As the founder of Grieving Back to Life and the visionary behind Grief Behind the Gavel™, Ayana has developed a grief-informed framework now used in reentry and court-involved settings. Her approach challenges punitive models by centering healing alongside accountability and recognizing grief as a transformative force rather than something to be fixed or silenced. Through intentional, trauma-informed spaces, her work supports individuals in integrating their experiences while reclaiming meaning, purpose, and hope.
“Grief doesn’t need to be fixed, it needs to be witnessed.”
Ayana Thomas
The Grief Coach
WHY THIS WORK MATTERS
Grief Behind the Gavel
A structured curriculum designed for court involved individuals. This work supports defense teams, mandated participants, and system impacted clients by identifying how grief influences behavior, choices, and engagement with the legal system. It introduces language, ownership, and accountability in a way traditional interventions do not.
Grieving Back to Life
A direct service model offered through individual sessions and group workshops. This program addresses layered grief connected to trauma, incarceration, reentry, and life transitions. It provides tools for emotional processing, self awareness, and rebuilding stability in real time.
AYANA Pillars for Healing
A framework that anchors all services and interventions:
Grief
Naming and understanding loss beyond death
Resilience
Recognizing adaptive survival patterns while building healthier responses
Accountability
Owning actions without bypassing lived experiences
Courage
Facing what has been avoided, suppressed, or punished
Empowerment
Reclaiming voice, choice, and internal authority
You don’t have to carry this alone
We’re here to support you in naming your grief, finding steadiness, and moving forward at your own pace.
